tulisan ini penyempurnaan dari tulisan dgn topik yg sama disuatu masa yg belum terlampau lama….
yah sejarah emg berulang yah, pasti pada suatu masa gw ketemu ama pembohong,karna emg itu fitrahnya manusia gitu?! 
well..I I hope not
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I think, I only can accept and tolerates (possibly) 5 kinds of lies:
1. Lie because we don’t want to hurt other feeling
2. Lie because we don’t want to make certain people worry
3. Lie to protect ourselves or other from danger
4. Lie to get people attention, (personally, I don’t really like it, but still.. I can accept it, very human)
5. Lie just for amusement, usually it meant no harm, just to make our friend(s)/family laugh.
The basic rules for a good liar are, U has to be able to cover up all the trace and all the possibility of the leak of information(s). If U cant do that, please don’t be….U only end up hurting Ur self and other heart, and it’s hard to gain their trust again.
And also just make people wonder, how thick are U? (a little bit harsh, but it is the truth )
The problem is…. this person (n’ I though we were done in civilize manner) lie to my significant others, and up until now, we cant figure out what the motive ware (I don’t think it based on any of 5 listed above)
ah well…..there are so many reasons about why people lies
but to tell the truth, we don’t need reasons, right?
coz’ it is should be the true nature of human……..
just remember another basic rule
One lie just lead us to another…… ^_^
It’s hard to gain trust, but it’s a lot harder to maintain it
ah..well. maybe it’s not that complicated, I’m just misunderstood (it’s safer to think that way..:P)
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