Once upon a time, live a young and beautiful girl, her outside is match with her inside. Then one day she meet this young handsome guy. They fall in love, and like other fairy tale, they get married and planning to live happily ever after on their own “castle”.
But ‘cause its not a tale, so the story still continues to tell.
What is so different about them?
Why am I wrote about them?
To answer those questions, I will continue the tale:
Before the honeymoon even ended, they already had a fight, at first it’s a perfectly normal fight, but then it was beyond normal when the husband started to used strength to her wife, on and on.
Every time he sober (or maybe just too tired to punch) he’ll said
“I’m sorry; I never meant to hurt U, I Love U”
She buys it, n’ every time she would just say to herself:
“He will change tomorrow”
“I know he love me, he just can’t control himself”
So the pattern just keeps going on and on……..
The husband never tries to stop and the wife never realizes the limits. They just live for tomorrow (but hey….tomorrow never comes, right?! its must start from today!! )
Until that day, when he “accidentally” push her over the stairs. She ended up in a hospital, but they still tried to cover it from their parent and friends, and they all belived it ( apalagi R yg emg “hobinya” jatuh ^_^).
One day on the very quite afternoon, I come to visited, saw her rainbow-like face and said (as a joke):
“ wah korban kekerasan dalam rumah tanga nih”
She replied nothing, than………. she cried, and just told me everything….
Me? I don’t know what to said;numb, speechless, mix emotion ( gak nyangka bgt deh)
Then she asked me this; “I’m so confused now, so what is love, how it felt?”
I replied :
“Hmmm…… I’m not an expert in love-things, but I believe that love is not about something that we say, it’s about something that we do. And love come with respect”
“The things that U should ask to Ur self now are, does his act indicated that he loves U? Did he respected U?”
She just cried, I don’t know what else to said then, just hug her….
The rest of the story is too private (and still rolling), let just pray for the best…(amiiin)
The things that I need to emphasize from this, is that always being curios, and don’t let the words “I love U” makes U can’t think clearly. We planning 2 get marry just for once, so choose wisely.
And for the family and the friends also be curius, start to pay attention to those silently scream, beter being noisy than latter be sory….(tapi mesti pinter2 juga sih ^_^)
True love is like a ghost;
Every one speaks about it, but it’s very rare to meet
I hope we all lucky enough to have it (The True love I mean, not the ghost of course :P)
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