Days Of Our Lives

Think you own whatever land U land on
Earth is just a dead thing U can claim
But I know ev’ry rock and tree and creature
Has a life, has a spirit, has a name

You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You’ll learn things U never knew

Can you sing with all the voices of the air?

You can own the earth and still
All U’ll own is earth until

U can paint with all the Colours of the Wind

Be happy is really easy:

U just act happy

So every body think U are a happy person

And through their ayes U can see “the happy U”

Then, U just had to believe that U are “that” happy

So finally U become trully happy

                     Confuse??

                     So am I, but it really worked,though ^_^

Banyak yg telah berubah…..tapi ada juga hal2 yang tak pernah berubah

anyway…best of luck buat Desy n Foye

 

U the one who opened it

Although all of these years we’ve been trying to protected  it

So….Don’t regret it

Though I wonder,

Can U still look on these people in their ayes??

Some says “live like a game”

But it doesn’t meant live is a game

We cant simply replay,save or quiting whenever we want

In live thare always something that cant be undone

That’s why in this game the wise one win

But, relax…..

No need to panic

U only open some of it

And despite all that U did to us,

We’ll try to keeps guarding on the others

Coz unlike U

We have a clear mind

We realize all of the consequences

But then, when I think again

Maybe our mind not as clear as I though it should be

Coz Its U’rs, not our’s

So why do we bother?? ^_^

What Your Soul Really Looks Like

You are a wanderer. You constantly long for a new adventure, challenge, or eve a completely different life. You are a very grounded, responsible, and realistic person. People may not want to hear the truth from you, but they’re going to get it. You believe that people see you for how you are, not how you look. But deep down, you know that’s not exactly true. Your near future is a lot like the present, and as far as you’re concerned, that’s a very good thing. For you, love is all about caring and comfort. You couldn’t fall in love with someone you didn’t trust.

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Terus terang Rani bingung dengan istilah nikah siri, atau popular dgn nikah dibawah tangan

Tambah bingung ketika temen R yg bukan muslim nanya: “apa sih nikah siri?? Gak sah gitu di agama??”

Well R bukan bingung karna pertanyaannya ato gimana jawabnya, tapi ama yg ngelakuinnya…..

Nikah siri setau R, sah secara agama….toh ada ijab kobul, ada saksi dll,

Jadi dimata Tuhan dan sebenernya dimata manusia (krn ada saksi)tuh orang be2 udah nikah.

Cuma dimata hukum,mereka be2 tdk diakui telah menikah, n’ status di KTP tetep BELUM NIKAH….

Toh sebenernya nenek R juga gak ada surat nikah dari KUA(krn jaman itu belon ada),tapi mereka sah secara agama dan ketika Indonesia merdeka, di KTP setatus mereka MENIKAH,jadi sah juga secara hukum

So R jadi mikir lagi,

Sekarang, ketika udah ada KUA, yg mengatur dan memudahkan, kenapa dilakuin??

Kenapa mau (utk phk ce terlebih lagi) ngelakuin??

Toh seperti biasa, ce selalu menjadi korban…

Bukan korban lelaki atau keadaan,tapi seringkali korban kebodohannya sendiri…..

missal klo yg terburuk terjadi :

jika punya anak: anaknya di Hukum tetap diakui tidak berbapak, belon lagi harta gono gini, atau status: kau masih gadis atau sudah janda?? ( halah!! meni dangdut pisan :p)

Meskipun hak istri, mantan istri ,anak, suami, mantan suami sudah diatur di agama, tapi berhubung hukum agama, sanksinya gak keliatan n untk yg GAK PUNYA HATI gak berasa, yah sekali lagi ce menjadi korban kebodohannya sendiri ( ironis bgt )

Yg paling konyol R baca di rubik psikologis, section curhat : ada ce yg bertanya, apa dia sudah resmi menikah?karna waktu itu co nya “menikahinya” dgn kelimat:

“Saya terima nikahnya…….binti…..dengan maskawin ciuman dibayar tunai dan disaksikan Allah SWT”

Dan dijawab oleh si ce, terus mereka “berhubungan” bahkan sampai tinggal serumah,so si ce menanyakan status dirinya, krn dia Merasa telah menikah (halah!!  >_<)

How sick is that?? >_<

Nama Tuhan kok dimainin,

trus please deh…gak dapet pelajaran munakahat gitu pas SD/SMP?

Nikah di Islam ada rukunnya,siapa yg boleh dinikahin,siapa yg boleh jadi wali,bukan asal tabrak kayak gitu ajah….

Mungkin itu side efek kebanyakan nonton tipi kali ya?? :p

koment sorang temen,”tp kan romantis Ran”

Halah……rokok makan gratis kaleee!!! ^_^

(tapi R akuin tuh co, idenya orisinil bgt :p)

Emg cinta sering menjadi alasan orang untk melakukan perbuatan yg aneh,

karna cinta emg aneh ^_^

Cinta memang penuh dengan janji manis,

Tapi pertama2 cukup dibuktikan dgn saling penghargaan dan penghormatan

Bila itu saja tak ada?

maybe its not love, its  just lust,

And lust don’t last forever….

U think Who would be the most person U want to make happy , but is turn out to be  the hardest and also in the same time, the easiest one to?? (pusing gak sih bacanya ?? :P)

For me, is my mom ^_^

Its simply started when I ask her :

What would U like?? What things that will make U most happy??

She simply just said: U n U’r brother happines….. T_T

So really …….Its easy and also hard at the same time,

Coz, ya..I am tries to gain my happines, my dream….

But on the ways, sometime I got stuck or stumble first, or experiecing things that make me have to alter my dream, and also sometime meet people that would hurt me…..

and it is normal, that what we called life, right?? ^_^

But a mother ( in this case, mine), never wish that to happen (obviously ^_^)

Coz she thinks, I dont need to fall just to know that it is hurt

But for me….

Well… sometime I want to fall first in order to learn how badly it hurt, so as the outcome: remebering those hurt, so I can be more alert n’ growing my sanse of  sympathy to others  ^_^,

Different point of view, but I do know she only has best intrest in her  heart (though sometime I forget or just being stuburn  :p)

Maybe it is what they called a mother instinc??

Well one things for sure, thare no word to describe how great a mother is

How deep her love is,

And what sacrifice thats she willingly to made for the sake of her children happiness…

Things that makes me sad just makes her more sad that I am

Things that makes me happy also simply woulds makes her happy too

So again, I just want to say:

     Happy (late) birthday….Mom

      I love U 4 always

      I’ll protect U 4ever

      I know everythings I do in my whole lifetime

      Still wont be enough to repay what U did and does for me

      Tx U, 4 always be the wind beneath my wings

      And Thanx U  God, for giving me such a great mother

     I pray I could be as half good as she is…..

                                        

             BGM pas nulis

             Seperti udara kasih yang engkau berikan

             Tak mampu ku membalas…..Ibu

                                         Title : Ibu

                                         By    : Iwan Fals

Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight
Someone’s thinking of me and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there someone’s saying a prayer
That we’ll find one another in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we’re sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we’ll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

Special For U ^_^

Pernahkah terpikir dimanakah lokasi jiwa??

Well…hal ini sangat sering nyangkut di otak R.

Dulu R pernah ngobrol ama Ryma, n katanya ada pilm yg temanya tentang hal ini,sayang percakapan segera beralih kehal lain tanpa kita berdua sadari, sehingga R gak tau judul n endingnya film ini gimana,masih inget gak Rym??^_^

Suatu hari R jg pernah ngobrol dengan Abang, so kita diskusi, dimanakira2 posisi jiwa itu berada…

Bahas..bahas..dan bahas

Kita akhirnya sampai pada suatu kesimpulan bahwa satu2nya cara unutk membuktikannya adalah dengan mencopot satupersatu organ2 yg ada di tubuh manusia sampai objeknya mati JJJ

sadist?? Crazy??

Iyah sih…tapi kan gak bener2 pengen dilakuin ^_^

kenapa R ngeributin ini??

Soalnya berkaitan dengan donor organ,sampai kini pro dan kontra selalu ada, meskipun bukan konfrontasi terbuka, karena gak ada paksaan juga sih bagi pendonor ^_^

Ada yg menentang dengan alasan agama, norma, cinta, dan nilai estetika

Tapi yg mendukung juga dengan alasaan yang sama percis (meskipun dari sudut pandang yg berbeda)

Tapi bagi R, meskipun R tetep belon tau posisi jiwa dimana, tapi mau2 ajah sih klo “saat R udah gak perlu lagi”, yah silakan ajah ambil mana yang perlu….^_^

tapi…. klo misalnya org yg penting n berhaga bagi diri R, mo jadi pendonor?! R agak2 gak rela juga sih  :p

Mskpn toh seperti yang tertulis di al-Qur’an ..waktu itu kalo gak salah Nabi Ibrahim pernah bertanya pada Allah tentang Kuasa-Nya

Dan Oleh Allah, Nabi disuruh melakukan experiment sederhana:

Ambil 3 burung, dicincang, diaduk-aduk, bagi di 3 wadah yg berbeda, trus lemparin masing2 wadah tadi, di bukit2 yg berbeda juga….

N hasil dari experiment ituh :

Seketika dilempar, seketika itu pula 3 burung yg sudah diaduk aduk gak jelas antar burung satu dan burung yang lainnya, langsung berikatan mencari bagian2 dari tubuhnya n hidup dan terbang lagi……..

So hal yg R hambil hikmahnya dari cerita ini,

Yah…. itu juga yg bakalan terjadi dengan yg didonori dan pendonor pada hari ketika kita semua dibangkitkan n dihisab nanti……

pokoknya gak perlu takut ketuker kok ^_^

Tapi tetep R penasaran ama posisi jiwa nih…..>_<

Tersangka sih cuma dua, di otak atau hati…..

Tapi katanya nyawa/jiwa akan ditarik dari kaki truuus sampe ke ubun2??

Hmm………bingung……*_*

Apa berdiam diseluruh tubuh tapi gak menetap; analogi seperti energi listrik di kompi;

mekipun kompi perlu PW supply,tapi klo gak ada aliran listrik yah percuma…..

tapi listrik kan gak diam menetap disuatu tempat ajah, melainkan mengalir …..n klo kabelnya dicabut yah udah mati…tapi jeroan2nya gak apa2,masih bisa (klo mo p) dipretelin untk dipake di kompi yg lain….(asumsi kompi klo mati berarti udah gak bisa dialirin listrik lagi) ^_^

Ngung…bingung >_<

Apa kita cobain saja experiment tadi,biar jelas  ??? ^_^

Yasterday, at the dentist, I meet this person that turn out is also a friend of my (potentially being best) friend,

So we chat,(eventhough mostly I just nod and listened :p)

But after sometime, I find something from this person that starting to iritated me…

Which ware, keeped asking my friend private life,

At first I just answered :” I dont now, why dont U just asked her about it…”.

But it keeped going on and on,

Ok….I have limit (and adding with my toothache*, it just reducing super fast…^_^)

So then :    

? : Who is she “with” now?? I heard she just broke up, it is true??why?? I heard her lates boy friend was really cute ….bla bla bla…….. (halah….>_<)

R: Hmm……..Can U keep a secret?? ( with face that kinda said : Lets-be-a trully-Gossiper ^_^)

? : of course.. I always keeps my friends secrets

R: Good, So do I  J J J (+ extra sweet smile :p)

?: ……………(dengan expresi : orang yg gak sengaja nelen kecoak tea ^_^)

Voila!! 

its works like Magic to make this type of person stay quite n’ end the conversation (its my second time meet this type of person n used this magic words too) ^_^

Was I being rude??

Whatever lah….. pokoknya gigi R sakit bgt( mode gak-nyambung : ON :p)

*Adding info yg (gak terlalu) penting:

R ke dentist bukan gara2 gigi bolong loh, tapi graham belakang yg lg tumbuh. Suakittt bgt >_<

N tambah sakit, pas ternyata orang2 disekitar R gak ada yg sakit ps tumbuh graham belakang L L L

Padahal R paling males ke dentis, kayak masuk black hole kata R mah, no way out!!! (sedangkan keberadaan white hole aja masih dipertanyakan ^_^)

Pasti adaaa ajah alasan yg bikin R mesti datang lagi, lagi dan lagi dan……