Days Of Our Lives

This pass few days, a lot of things being going on on my neigberhood…..

I dont want ( and I dont had a right) to told U the detail…..

But….things that happened this days, just makes me wonder….

What makes a mother, worth to be called a mother??

Is it enough by being pragnant for +/- 9 month and giving birth, but then give up her baby for adoption,while thingking :

” being pragnant was a big mistake, by giving this up, I could undo the mistake”?

or is it more than enough to just raise and love the  child eventhogh the child wasnt born from her?

Well, I dont know the answer

Thing that I know are………

I know that pragnancy is not an easy job,

and to giving birth, sometime would cost the mother life…… (thats why in Islam, a women who died while giving birth, would go stright to haven, “sahid” we called)

But to raise an loving a child also not an easy job either,

its not only could cost the mother life,

sometime it even cost the mother pride ( in some case(s) lost a pride, event worse than death it self. I mean we can only died once, right??),

and how  the mother would always protect her child,

be thare, eventhough the child only hurt her feelling , in my oppinion is priceless…..

Pragnancy only cost nine month, but to raise and loving a child, would cost a life time……

And I am just one of lucky children who has a mother whom I’ve being born from, raise me and just loving me for who I am…….

Thare ware times when she seem doesnt understand me, but  I always knew that she would always be thare for me (shoot, I got something on my ayes  T_T )

So once again,

What makes a mother, worth to be called a mother ??