(I think,I only can accept and tolerates (possibly) 5 kinds of lies:
- Lie because we don’t want to hurt other feeling
- Lie because we don’t want to make certain people worry
- Lie to protect ourselves or other from danger
- Lie to get people attention, (personally, I don’t really like it, but still.. I can accept it)
- Lie just for amusement, usually it meant no harm, just to make our friend(s)/family laugh.
The basic rules for a good liar are, U had to be able to cover up all the trace and all the possibility of the leak of information. If U cant do that, please don’t be….U only end up hurting Ur self and other heart, and it’s hard to get their trust again. And also just make people wonder, how thick are U? (a little bit harsh, but it is the truth 
)
The problem is…. this person (n’ I though we ware a good friend)lie to me, and this person didnt do the basic rules of it. I also cant figure it out what are the motive?(I don’t think it based on any of 5 listed above).
The most ridiculous thing is, I know this person (possibly) darkest secret. So why this person had to did that??
Didn’t it like dig his/hers own hole? :p
The truth is, I am a believer, I tend to trust people. Therefore, it is hurt when this happen. Or maybe this person think I am so naïve and can be fool easily…>_<
Fortunately for this person, I am not a type of women who likes to contradict with this person lies or to make this person suffer public humiliation. However, that if I am in the right mood, If I am in the wrong mood …………….who knows? :p
So I would pray for God guidance, cause I don’t really like to hurt other (eventhogh, at first it wasn’t come from my part and I’ve being hurt too)
I believe…
It’s hard to gain trust, but it’s a lot harder to maintain it
And one lie just lead us to another…… ^_^
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